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How is Your Life Going?

People have gone crazy.
I talk to people to contribute to their well-being and to know others.
Characteristics like Sadism, Machiavellian, Selfishness, psychopathic, and unhappiness are increasing among people.
Lies, distrust, not living to the highest potential, lack of goal, lack of individual completeness, Lack of self-validation, and saying things they do not believe to be true are the roots that define the actions and reactions of many.
People lie to themselves so much and still have the audacity to say they are truthful. No, they are not, they just can't see. To speak the truth takes observance, knowledge, and experience. 
Saying the truth is a mighty tall order.
Don't lie when you know you are lying, and stick to it. Don't say the lie.
Immediate gratification has led to the loss of patience and has grasped everyone in the bubble of acquiring short-term goals and happiness.
Talking to people is so easy, ask them the right question to get the right answer and there is nothing they won't tell you, in case they do not have anything to hide.
Yesterday, I was talking to a young woman who is going through a very rough relationship (like many of you). She told me that she would advise her younger sister to not devote herself to the relationship completely even if at some point you feel that you can make the best relationship she will ever encounter. But she would still stay in the same loop for herself because of tightly grasped by immediate gratification. Emotions, feelings, thoughts, and actions wither off leading to the dominance of pride, ego, selfishness, and inner hidden malevolence.
In the lack of higher values like love, the responsibility for self, friends, family, and community, and respect, their superficially framed sanity fades and their ignorant insanity take over.
Common characteristics of people that I am talking about are:
  • Presentable
  • Know how to talk
  • Good sense of humour
  • Connections with people similar to them (toxic)
  • Charismatic
  • Presumably Extrovert, talkative
  • Predominant users of social media
  • Shallow with no to less connection in the hierarchy of values (Emotions, thoughts, actions)
  • Antisocial, psychopathic
  • Feel alienated by the people who are not like them
  • Narcissistic, Sadistic
  • Think the world works the way they think it works
  • Will take the credit for anything they do worthy
  • No sacrifice to delay immediate gratification
  • Have a strong conviction about their thoughts
  • Do not believe in negotiation.
  • Will not step back from arguments with foolish points defining the fact that the world works the way they think it does.



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